The Short Version - Husband of a hotwife who is looking for guys who don't need a marathon sexual encounter to have a good time. Good time defined. How about drinks at a nice outdoor bar by a firepit, listening to music, and a blowjob under the stars. The Longer Version - So, where do we begin? As my wife and I journey down this path in life, things have evolved. We started by inviting guys up for playdates without doing a meet and greet first, and even though my wife always had to option to say no if there wasn't a connection, she felt obligated to perform, which didn't work for either one of us. We then moved to a meet and greet first and, on the second visit, a playdate. That also was a flawed approach for her as it wasn't organic enough. Let me explain why. We are here to meet friends and people we want to hang out with, have over for dinner, have several of you up at the same time for drinks at our bar, invite someone over to family events and essentially be part of our tribe like you would want with any other close friend. Setting up a second visit where my wife is obligated to perform doesn't really fit with that type of friendship. So what does work for her? She wants to meet people who really turn into friends, and if the stars align, and she wants to play, you might be the one picked. For example, there might be several of us sitting by the firepit smoking cigars and drinking bourbon, and she picks one of you to orally service right in front of us because you took the time to learn the country two-step and danced with her earlier. So any of you guys who think you might be a fit but are worried that you lack the "stamina" that some of the heroes on this site have, please stop worrying about that. My wife doesn't want marathon sex. She doesn't even care if she gets off herself. If you can only last 3 min that is a bonus for her as she can take care of you and then we can all get back to the bar singing and drinking. Who knows if you go quick, you might get to go more than once. PS the bar I mention is the one I have at my house, and we only entertain up here.

My Ideal Person My wife's ideal person is someone who can dance, likes old trucks, wants to make new friends, likes cigars, and drinks around a fire. She likes bigger men that are taller than 6'2", but that isn't a hard rule. She wants to meet people who are really interested in expanding their friend pool and understand that friends might be all it ever is. If you are invited back on a regular basis though, your turn will come, and we will both be surprised when it happens.

Big-tatted-up bad boy-looking biker guys are going to find lots of success up here.

If you are slim, you will not find much success up here even if you are tall. She likes guys who fall in the range of fit, average, and ample.

So why am I looking for guys on this site if sex isn't a sure thing and we are looking for good friends? Well, she does play quite often, and I don't want anyone shocked, upset, or offended if the stars align correctly and she comes up dressed in a naughty school girl\teacher outfit because she plans on being.....naughty.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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