Hi! :) I'm a firm believer in being 100% honest so I have to say at this time [B]I'm not actively looking for anyone because I am currently in a long term triad relationship with a couple[/B] (FreqnaLeash) that likes to keep me warm and toasty at night, we've been seeing each other for over a 5 years now. I am, however, still looking to make new and wonderful friends, males, females, and couples are always welcome. Something I would like to mention is that the couple I see and myself wouldn't be closed to the idea of throwing in another female, maybe even a couple depending on the chemistry all around of course. And one never knows, and it may be that eventually we will drift apart and I will again be looking for another male or couple to bide my time with, just don’t make plans for that to happen anytime soon (jinx!). ;) I'm a little shy till I get to know someone then all bets are off. I'm 5-5ish and about 180 (I carry it well, more muscle than fluff, all the heavy lifting at work did that). I'm fun loving and will try most anything once, love to laugh, and am a consummate cuddler (cuddling is schweet!). I'm into reading, and movies, some TV (when I can get the remote away from my g/f), and like to simply talk to my friends. The three of us host a couple meet and greets in the area as well, so it's actually possible to meet me. You just have to meet my b/f & g/f, and our friends, but I do actually meet people! Always friendly and looking forward to meeting new and interesting people. So, send me an e-mail and get to know me, I'm told I'm very entertaining.

My Ideal Person In a word, Respectful. Someone that understands I have a job, and a life, and a committed relationship with a couple, and can deal with that. Never hurts to have friends or make new ones, just understand that right now, my people & I are pretty busy with life and work. Sure, we're always interested in meeting people, but those people have to be open minded and understanding enough to realize we cant always make time to hang out with friends, old or new (but then that’s why we do the meets, so we have some time set aside for them). Hoping that changes in the near future, a couple of us are looking at career changes and we're planning on getting a new, bigger home, something better for having friends come over anyway.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
everything from Kenny Chesney to Avril Lavgine to Guns and Roses to Arowsmith

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, I want someone honest no games!

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Vin Diesel--
Anything would be great cause you could get away with anything but something tells me he would be great in the backseat of a limmo.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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