I am non-monogamous and unwilling to participate in anything that will hurt or disrespect myself or other people. I have one partner. I can play separately or together with her. Some we can discuss in private. I have nothing to hide and open book. I live by if you never ask me you will never your answer. I live in the present, take it day by day, spontaneously, with much gratitude (gratitude and laughter, are my cure-alls, music and nature are up there, too).
Words describing me affection,over thinker sometimes, ambiamorous, emotional available, unqine, caring,adventurous, curious, smart ass, Solo Poly man, curious, self-awareness, father, earthy and much more.
After recently being inactive in the lifestyle I am looking to dive back in again. I refer to myself as an empathic switch. Whether I am D/s depends on the relationship dynamic.
I am seeking an intelligent and well-articulated partner to explore my dominant and kinkier side. Interested in in-person play after getting to know each other and meeting in public.
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage, Squirting
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.