Just a regular 59 year old guy with a few ideas that wouldn't have occurred to me when I was 25. This ad is from my membership when I WAS in Washington. I'm in the Willamette Valley in Oregon, now. I am an inventor/entrepeneur still tryin' to survive in a world that seems to have lost track of what's important.. good company. Oh.. I can receive/exchange e-mail from REGULAR subscribers, now. Let's see if they will include it: gotink at Peak dot org

My Ideal Person I would like to find a gal to explore and pursue the fine art and mystique of pompoir, otherwise known by the generic term of tantric milking. It seems that a lot of gals haven't gotten past the stage of passive hedonism, and there is still room to explore. Most of the background about pompoir can be found on the web, but these folks don't allow links.
Good conversationalist, a must. And must be able to keep up with a short attention span.
I'm of, basically, your Jimmy Stewart stereotype; hate to see the little guy suffer when he has a lot to offer.More later.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
This might not be PURE fantasy... how about sexual REALITY...

I refer to it as Maintenance Sex.

C’mon, now……. Every so often, the urge hits, and there’s no substitute for a warm, pulsating persistent squeezing and clamping lock-up at the primitive level of need and arousal.
OK, so I guess I finally figgered out what I REALLY would like..
Rather than be the assertive one most of the time, I would like to hook up with a gal with a really good discipline for her kegels. Instead of just allowing ME to do the work, how about working on developing those muscles to the point of being able to, at least try, to squeeze my love probe, and see how far she can lift me out of my recliner when she climbs aboard. If that sounds impossible, how's about we discuss the subject?

We go out with our friends for a social event... be it coffee, shopping or kibitzing... and we totally escape from the everpresent urge to feel the closeness of the throbbing from within.
Haven’t we overcome the coyness and the elusiveness that has been created from the social ambiguity about enjoying a refreshing “romp in the hay”? At this stage of life, it’s a refreshing reward to the time spent together in close company.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, erotic enema, anyone?

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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