I'm a mellow and respectful guy who can be very serious and analytical, but also very happy and light. I generally try to look on the positive side, and strive to help others do so as well. Sexually, I'm a little more private, but exploration. I think curious, not naive, is a good way of describing me on that front.

My Ideal Person I generally find people interesting, so I'll chat with most anyone. In a partner, play or otherwise, I think energy, spontaneity, and respect are some core features I appreciate. I can be very enthusiastic, and also very straight forward, so someone who can reflect that, or at least prefers that would be wonderful.

Finally, I seem to have a thing for fencers. This certainly is not a requirement, but an observation of my past relationships. Someone who is playful, yet to the point, in the case before I could say literally. I can play a bit defensively, so someone patient with that is a plus as well.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Loreena Mckennitt, Enya, Dead Can Dance

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I've had a fantasy since I was young of finding myself
on a bed or table, with a bright light shining on me. I'm
clothed, and can't see into the darkness, but both
my hands and legs are restrained. From the darkness I can
hear some whispers, and as I lay there, hands begin to touch
me, exploring my body, teasing me. Even though I don't
know what's going on, I become excited. Eventually,
the hands begin to undress me, playing with each part of
my body, touching, teasing. I can't fight it, but they
won't let me finish, I just stay excited from their
touches. I almost can't stand it, and only after a little
while do I finally cum.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, Tickling, Body Caresses

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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