Literally, I'm defined by my friends as a nice guy and therefore taken less serious by some. I'm not mr. "gotta spit my game" but more of a "Hi, what's your name?" and let's be friends first kind of guy. I'm still a guy though and I'm looking but I'm not trying to be a sleaze about it. I'm a mixed introvert/extrovert. I'm social and shy. I can chat it up but I like to be more 1on1. I'm smart and am always trying to learn something new. I LOVE FILMS and PHOTOGRAPHY. I keep a photoblog and I go to the museum a few times every few months. I like cafes and nature. If you're local lets be friends and take things from there. If you're nice, intelligent, care about the world, and materialism isn't the most important thing I think we'd get along. Message me.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone to go on small adventures with. Around the city, around the bay, hiking, cafes. Let's talk for hours. Let's have staring contests. Show me some of your favorite things and I'll share with you some of mine.

Nerdy girls are hot. Athletic and introspective is great. Like art? That's perfect. Listen to jazz? I'm swooning.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
since middle school always thought blindfolds, candles,
satin/silk sheets, lingerie would be the perfect mix.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A movie theatre, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Candle Wax, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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