I am trim, intelligent, in good humor and still have a full head of hair, open to NSA/FWB and if mutually agreeable, social intercourse. Not opposed to an LTR, but for now I want to return to a more liberated sexuality I enjoyed when younger, so, anything from a quickie(STRICTLY SAFE SEX - I'm not dying for a fuck) to an LTR could be considered - depends on much more than I want to list here. I bring to the sheets many varied life experiences, wide ranging interests and I relish, long for - even expect in anything but NSA/Quickies, intelligent, deep conversations and connections. Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this

My Ideal Person I like touch and the most important quality I seek is a women who appreciates sensuality and sex. My preference is women who do not need/want a large penis. My tool is on the short side (5-6 inches with a nice head though). If you require bigger, STOP, read no further.

Your orgasms are far more important than mine (something about female energy than energizes and eroticizes me). Intelligence is valued as much or more over appearance and the woman who loves and accepts her body as is will keep my attention longer. Sensual women are adorable. My turn ons - female orgasms - the louder, longer & more often the better. You will have to love being touched with a lot of foreplay. Sure, I'm a pleasure pig but my ecstasy flows from pleasing my partner. Ever read or listened to Barry Long's take on sexual ecstasy? If there is a God, she meant for us to enjoy our bodies, yes?

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Mozart, Ry Cooder, Elvis Costelo, Beethoven, Van Morrison,
Bonnie Rait, EmmyLouHarris, Kate Bush

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Susan Sarandon, voice (and bod); Halle Berry, almost perfect
human beauty - understand that these are simply fantasies,
I stay present with the one I am with.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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