I am a confident, active, humorous, attentive, entertaining man. I feel and look younger than my age. I am often mistakenly thought to be in my mid 40’s. While I am not looking for a committed relationship I am open to and prefer an ongoing no strings relationship with one women. I enjoy sex much more when I know my lover. It’s better with a friend. One night stands with strangers can fulfill a momentary physical need but they are not truly satisfying. I enjoy having an intellectual relationship and find it enhances a sexual relationship. I am curious about most things in life , science, art, politics, finance, music, etc. I play the guitar badly for my own enjoyment. I like all kinds of music as long as the performance is good. I love R&B, Jazz, house, old rock & roll, contemporary, etc.. I prefer fine dining and live theatre to the bar scene. I do enjoy clubs where music is being performed live. I love pets. I have two dogs and two cats. I have been married for 39 years. I have no intention of ending that marriage but sex is no longer a part of our life together, and I miss the physical intimacy. I consider myself to be a skilled lover. ( Don’t all men) The whole evening is fore play. I aim for quality and have a need to please my partner. I am orally inclined and enjoy giving and receiving. I like a lot of kissing and touching.

My Ideal Person I won’t repeat the above but it tells most of what I want.
Physically you must look like you care about yourself.
My gut tells me you should be married but, if you are single and accept that I am not, I don’t have a problem.
Safe sex is expected.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, HUMOR AND iNTERESTS You have to have them

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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