That is, a Friend with Benefits. I'm outgoing, friendly, a pretty good listener, and I've been told a pretty good lover. Let's be each stress relief! I want a friend to hang out with in and/or out of the bedroom. As far as commitment, when we are with each other, that is our commitment - to be each others' best friend and lover, in whatever order you want to put them. And that means that we can tell each other absolutely anything (even about another lover) and trust that it will never be held against us. But when we are apart, we have our own lives. If deeper and stronger feelings develop, and are shared, all the better. If not, we are still friends. If you require discretion, I will honor your wishes. A few notes: \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* Though I answered "non-smoker," I am in the process of trying to quit. If you prefer, I can refrain when we are together but it would be nice to satisfy the oral cravings in other ways! >:) \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* I am not a huge fan of exchanging a bunch of emails or chats. I would much prefer to meet face-to-face rather early (in public of course) so we can assess if there is any chemistry between us. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* I may not be Mr. Right, and you may not be Ms. Right, but I bet we could have a lot of fun until they come along.

My Ideal Person What am I looking for - hmmmm. A woman who is attractive, intelligent, honest, friendly, relatively fit and healthy, sexually active and curious, and open-minded.

Of course, a sexy woman looking for a NSA relationship would always be welcome as well.

Oh, and if you don't want "players" to contact you, DON'T BE ONE YOURSELF!!!!!!! In other words, extend common courtesy: respond to emails (OK, seemingly legitimate ones), show up for dates or call to apologize,etc. Remember, common courtesy extends to both genders and all races; the person you are discourteous to today may just be the one whom you are depending on tomorrow. In other words, do unto others, etc. Sorry - rant over.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
3 Doors Down, Michael Buble, Elliot Yamin

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Blindfolds, Giving anal sex & ass play

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really - I don't fantasize about women I don't
know.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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